By Travis Gray
Across the USA, anti-transgender legislation is raging forward. In Texas and Idaho, they are moving towards banning transgender healthcare for people under 18. When I see people debating my right to live, I see a consistent argument from the other side: “What about when these kids change their minds?” “What if they regret it in the future?” “What about the high rates of detransition?” etc. I’m here to talk about people who do decide to detransition – why, who, when, and the big one, the rates. I’m not here to talk about what makes a person transgender, or whether kids should or shouldn’t transition. I am here to share the research I have done, since according to certain sides, science reigns over feelings when it comes to gender.
The first study I explored was from the European Professional Association for Transgender Health (EPATH) where they reported on detransition rates; they studied records from Charing Cross Gender Identity Clinic in the United Kingdom. They found that from August 2016 to August 2017 “of the 3398 patients who had appointments during this period, 16 (0.47%) expressed transition-related regret or detransitioned” (Davies, et al. 139). When these patients discussed their reasons for regret, they had a multitude of answers; “one patient expressed regret but was not considering detransitioning, two had expressed regret and were considering detransitioning, three had detransitioned, and ten had detransitioned temporarily. Only three patients made a long-term detransition.” (Davies, et al. 139). From this instance we can see that out of 3398 people, only 0.089% of patients officially detransitioned. When discussing kiddos, according to Gender GP, a study from the Netherlands found that “only 1.9% of young people on puberty blockers did not want to continue with the medical transition.” From two studies, we can see that it was a small amount of folks who followed through with some sort of detransition.
Now why do people detransition? It can be for a variety of reasons. Transgender individuals face various obstacles socially, economically, legally, and medically. According to this study by Fenway Health, “The most common reason cited for detransition was pressure from a parent (35.5%), pressure from their community or societal stigma (32.5%), or trouble finding a job (26.8%). Other reasons included pressure from medical health professionals (5.6%) or religious leaders (5.3%).” This is followed up from a survey of 28,000 transgender people from the USA where it provided statistics that “Nearly one-third (31%) of respondents who visited a store, restaurant, hotel, or theater where the staff knew or thought they were transgender were mistreated because of their gender identity or expression,” (215), and that “Nearly half (48%) of respondents reported that they were denied equal treatment or service, verbally harassed, and/or physically attacked because of being transgender in the past year” (199). There’s always a burning fear of physical or verbal assault, an itch so bad that it makes sense to hide from it. Furthermore, many transgender people lose the support of family members, friends, and coworkers when they come out as transgender- it can be isolating and scary. If the option is to revert their prior identity so they can return to love and support, no wonder people do it. During the pandemic we found how hard it was to be alone with no one to talk to. Imagine if that was because someone despised you for your identity, even though it was someone who was supposed to love you for who you are.
In the EPATH article, “detransition was most often prompted by social difficulties rather than changes in gender identity or physical complications and was most often temporary” (Davies, et al. 139). Temporary? It can be found that when a person starts to get more support and footing for their identity, they may end their detransition and ‘retransition.’ “In the US, a survey of nearly 28,000 people found that only eight percent of respondents reported some kind of detransition. Of these, sixty-two percent only did so temporarily” as reported from this Gender GP article about Detransition Facts and Statistics. While everyone’s transition, detransitions, and possible retransitions are different per person- support is an immense factor. From the study it can be seen that a high portion of folks return to their transgender identity when they feel safe and loved, maybe we can cut the middle man out and start with caring for our fellow people and giving them love, instead of taking their rights away.
This is not a ‘trans people vs detransitioners’ kind of thing. It’s unfortunate that this care option didn’t work out for those people or that they had obstacles in their way. I feel for them, I really do, and I think we should listen to the stories of people who detransition. Inversely, their stories should not overshadow other experiences of transgender people and the good that can come from transitioning. Through this post I have shared that many factors go into why people detransition. Lack of support is the highest factor to why people detransition, so I fully believe that through support and love, people can find and accept their identities- whether cisgender or transgender. Transition is scary, but ostracizing people is not going to help them with their choices. In the meantime, it’s going to hurt a lot of kids, teens, and adults who are already struggling with the lack of support that the community faces. I know I would not be here today if I hadn’t been able to transition when I was 16 and if I had seen my state working against me to strip my identity from me, it would have broken me. Listen to transgender people, listen to detransitioners, listen to transgender kids, because if this bill goes through… transgender medical care rates for youths will go down, but suicide rates will go up.
“Multiple trans individuals testified on the record to everyone in that committee that day, that had they not access to the healthcare that they had, that they would not have been there to testify, that they would have killed themselves,” House Representative Ned Burns (D-Bellevue) said during the conference discussing the bill.
https://www.krem.com/article/news/politics/bill-banning-surgery-treatment-transgender-youth-passes-idaho-house/293-aa3b653c-2336-491e-9ead-914f2c59fe44