By Travis Gray
The internet is a vast and wild world, and it was the first place I learned the term ‘transgender.’ Throughout my teenage years, I started to see more and more people that I related to and made me able to say, “Oh hey, I feel like that, too!” Here are a few influential trans people who helped me find my identity, hear different perspectives, and have people that I can see myself in in the world.
Miles McKenna (he/they) was the first (as of when I found him) lesbian YouTuber I found. 6 years ago, I had an inkling of what transgender meant, but no living, breathing examples. The L and the G of LGBT were pretty self-explanatory to me, and just like Miles, I also identified as a lesbian. When I found his YouTube channel, he was an out and proud lesbian, and I got hooked on his videos. They were high energy, ridiculous, and perfect for a middle schooler. I related a lot to him- being very gender nonconforming or ‘tomboyish,’ not caring about body hair, and wanting to wear men’s clothing because “Hey it’s comfortable and has pockets.” On January 30th, 2017, he posted a video titled “SO I’M TRANS*” where he came out as trans, shared his new name and pronouns, and started the journey of uncertainty. In my own journey, I had been starting to get a feel for what transgender meant and what it was, but I just wasn’t confident in what I knew or even what I felt. His video thrust it into my face and as he kept posting with this new confidence, energy, and happiness, I knew it was something I wanted, too. I was able to see someone who was already a role model to me go through the transition process and it helped me immensely. His “I AM MILES” video was athe biggest help, since it outlined his transition process and made them feel feasible! Honestly, I used that video and others of his after I came out to my parents to show them that, “Hey, this person did it and here is his journey.” We also learned that we had a family friend who was also transgender; the world is much smaller than you may think. Miles McKenna currently has a book called Out!: How to Be Your Authentic Self highlighting his transition, which is described as an “ultimate coming-out survival guide.”
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