As my time here on the blog dwindles down, I would like to write once again about a topic near and dear to my heart. Girl friendships. This post may sound a lot like a post I wrote earlier about Galantine’s day. But it is not, this time I want to focus on how sometimes the media does not know how to get a girl friendship right.
The friendship between women is something else. I cannot quite encapsulate the feelings that I have for my friends, or how they have helped me in more ways than I can even count. But my girlfriends are my rocks, they are my best friends, I cannot think of life without them. While there can be bad friendships that cause more harm than good, there are also friendships that enrich lives and make life so much better.
I’m not a Taylor Swift fan. I never have been, and I doubt I ever will be.
Don’t get me wrong- I admire her. A self-made woman who has stayed relatively true to herself over the last ten years while in the spotlight? Not an easy task. But let’s be honest- when it comes to revolutionary sound and lyrics, Taylor is pretty bland. Not that that’s a bad thing! We’ve all got our favorite songs to listen to on the radio. I personally have belted out “We are never, ever getting back together” with such drunken ferocity you would think it was me who dated Harry Styles. But Taylor Swift is just another pretty white face in a sea of more pretty white faces that run the pop industry with cookie-cutter music and overused hooks. She’s fun, not revolutionary. And that’s the best way I can describe her feminism as well, including her winning speech at the 2016 Grammys. Continue reading “Taylor Swift’s Lackluster “Win” For Feminism”→